Ever wanted to get inside the mind of a woman and find out what she really wants? What she’s really looking for? Here at Sexmeup.co.uk, we could have the answer to your prayers!

We asked our sexy females what they like to see and what gets them going, and we’re pleased to reveal our survey results to you, to help you get closer to our girls and boost your chances of hot action. You don’t want to miss this!

At Sexmeup.co.uk, we take all the steps we can to ensure your time with us is as enjoyable and as safe as possible. If you’ve decided to have some fun and try adult dating, here are your top 10 tips for keeping it safe. Whether you decide to correspond online or meet member’s offline, please use sound judgment and be responsible for your conduct. In both the virtual and real worlds, common sense is your best defence.

1. Start slowly

Watch out for anyone who seems too good to be true. Begin by communicating solely via Sexmeup.co.uk, and look for odd behaviour or inconsistencies. The person at the other end may not be who or what he or she says they are. Trust your instincts. If anything makes you uncomfortable, walk away for your own safety and protection.

2. Guard your anonymity

Careful, thoughtful decisions generally produce better results. Take all the time you need to convince yourself that they are a trustworthy person and pay careful attention along the way. If you suspect someone is lying, he or she probably is, so act accordingly. Be responsible about romance or casual sex, and don’t fall in love at the click of a mouse. Don’t become prematurely intimate with someone, even if only online. If you mutually decide to cross the point of no return, be smart and protect yourself.

3. Use caution and common sense

Careful, thoughtful decisions generally produce better results. Take all the time you need to convince yourself that they are a trustworthy person and pay careful attention along the way. If you suspect someone is lying, he or she probably is, so act accordingly. Be responsible about romance, and don’t fall in love at the click of a mouse. Don’t become prematurely intimate with someone, even if only adult. If you mutually decide to cross the point of no return, be smart and protect yourself.

4. Ask for a photo

A photo will give you a good idea of the person’s appearance, which can be helpful in forming a “gut feeling”. If possible, try to see several images of someone in various settings – casual, formal, indoors and outdoors etc. If all you hear are excuses about why you can’t see a photo, consider that he or she has something to hide.

5. Chat on the phone

A phone call can reveal a lot about a person’s communication and social skills. Consider your security and don’t reveal your personal phone number to a stranger. Try a mobile phone number instead or use 141 to prevent your phone number from being transmitted. Only give out your phone number when you feel completely comfortable..

6. Meet when you’re ready

The beauty of meeting and getting to know each other online is that you can collect information gradually, later choosing whether to pursue the relationship in the offline world. You are never obliged to meet anyone, regardless of your level of intimacy. And even if you do decide to meet, you can always change your mind. It’s possible that your decision to keep the relationship at the anonymous level is based on a hunch that you can’t logically explain. Trust yourself and go with your instincts.

7. Watch for warning signs
Pay attention to displays of anger, intense frustration or attempts to pressure or control you. Acting in a passive-aggressive manner, making demeaning or disrespectful comments or any physically inappropriate behaviour are all warning signs. You should be concerned if your date exhibits any of the following behaviour without an acceptable explanation:

• Gives inconsistent information about age, interests, appearance, marital status, profession, employment, etc.
• Refuses to speak to you on the phone after establishing ongoing, adult intimacy or fails to give direct answers to direct questions.
• Appears significantly different in person from his or her online persona or never introduces you to friends, colleagues or family members.

8. Meet somewhere safe

When you choose to meet offline, always tell a friend where you are going and when you will return. Leave your date’s name and telephone number with your friend. Never arrange for your date to pick you up at home. Provide your own transportation, meet in a public place at a time when there will be plenty of people around, and when the date is over, leave on your own. A familiar restaurant or café, at a time when a lot of other people will be present, is often a good choice. If you decide to move to another location, take your own car. When the timing is appropriate, thank your date for getting together and say goodbye.

9. Use extra caution in new places

If you are arriving from another part of the country, arrange your own transport and hotel room and don’t disclose the name of your hotel. Call your date from the hotel or meet at an agreed location. If the location seems inappropriate or unsafe, go back to your hotel. Try to contact your date at that location or leave a message on their answer phone. Always make sure a friend or family member knows your plans and has your contact information. And if possible, carry a mobile phone at all times.

10. Always have a ‘follow-on’ plan

Never do anything you feel unsure about. If you are in any way afraid of your date, use your best judgment to diffuse the situation and leave as quickly as possible. Excuse yourself long enough to call a friend for advice, ask someone else at the scene for help or slip out the back door and drive away. If you feel you’re in danger, call the police; it’s always better to be safe than sorry.  Never worry or feel embarrassed about your behaviour; your safety is much more important than one person’s opinion of you. All common sense really, but we hope these tips give you some guidance for enjoying safe dating!

We all like a bit of excitement in our lives, but sometimes getting it means playing by the rules. Here at sex me up there’s nothing more important to us than offering our Members a good time online.

We’ve listened to what you want (NO, not that!) and we’re committed to making sex me up a place you want to spend time and know what you’re getting.

Like surprises? Don’t we all, but sometimes we get a nasty shock too. We want to make sure that only likeminded people get to have fun on sex me up, so we’re going to be checking every new profile uploaded to make sure it meets the grade. If it doesn’t – you won’t be seeing it!

It’s not a one time thing either, every time a profile is changed or edited – we’ll be watching.

We all like attention, but we’re keen to make sure it’s the right sort of attention you’re getting. So we’re introducing First Message Approval on sex me up. All new Members will have their first message approved by us. This will help us weed out 99% of non-genuine Members who are up to no good.

We all use words to help us get what we want – and things are no different here on sex me up. But some people use them to deliberately mislead or misrepresent themselves to others. That’s not the sort of activity we want going on within our site. Our new system allows us to monitor profiles, messages and diaries for suspicious or inappropriate activity and put a stop to it!

If you’ve got any further questions about these new features or anything else regarding your membership on sex me up, please don’t hesitate to contact our friendly Customer Care Team. Simply drop them an e-mail atsupport@globalpersonals.co.uk with your query and they’ll get back to you within 24 hours. If it can’t wait that long, why not give them a ring on 01753 271286 between 9am and 5pm, 7 days a week.

Playing by the rules doesn’t have to mean taking the fun out of it!

The sex me up Team

If you want advice on dating then watch this video of Borat and do the complete opposite CLICK HERE to view the video

The new functionality is a better match making tool, that gives a member a personalised list of recommended dates based on any past member profiles visited, previous winks that have been made, and any single people added to your favourites list.

Therefore, the more you use Sexmeup, the more we get to know your preferred ‘type’ and we recommend other dating members accordingly. I think you’ll find that the results are quite amazing, and it means users actually spend less time searching for their perfect date, get better preferred matches, and even find closer perfect matches in different areas.

We even offer ‘two-way matches’. Here the members in your recommended list, will also see you in theirs. It’s a great new feature which makes it even easier to find your perfect partner online. So don’t waste any further time, logon and start searching.

A small number of guys on Sexmeup have not got a clue when it comes to sending emails to our lovely Female members. Here at Sexmeup We want you to find your Match, not scare them off, So we have listed the messages you DON’T send.

1 – Get the Picture right - Believe it or not most women are not interested in how big your Manhood is and even less interested when they don’t even know who owns it. Make sure when you fill in your profile make your main image a photo of your face or a body shot.

2 – Never ask her to have Sex with You! Asking for sex on the Second Email Exchange is completely offensive and rude. Women like to  talk and understand more about people.

3 - Don’t expect that phone call – Do not think for one minute that using the line ‘Hi sweetheart my number is 07849 577### give me a call I’m free this weekend’ means she is going to rush to the phone and call you. Most of the guys that send this do not even bother to place an image in their profile. So think about it would you phone a random number out of the phone book and offer to take them out?

4 – Never ask her for a naked picture – Doing so, definitely is an insult. It won’t help you to earn her faith. You can request for her image in exchange of yours but do not ask for the nude image. Well not until you get to know her a bit first.

5 – Never Send Nasty Emails – If for example she hasn’t replied to your messages, just move on. Don’t send a nasty email enquiring why the hell she has not replied Besides it’s her decision to contact you or not.

If your not into sending messages then Please,Please,Please place a photo on your profile because if you do not then you will never receive a message. You would be amazed how many profiles are not filled out and then moan that they dont get any messages, Just think about it would you pick up the phone and dial a random number out the phonebook? Well that’s the same as having an empty  profile no one is going to email you when you have a blank profile.

Good luck

Sexmeup x

We asked our Female staff at Sexmeup what chat up lines they know of or used on men and here they are.

• Do you have a Band-Aid? I hurt my knee when I fell for you.
• I may not be Wilma Flintstone, but I know I can make your BedRock.
• Is your name Gillette? the best a woman can get.
• Do these look real?
• Can I have a picture of you so I can show Santa what I want for Christmas?
• Reach for the back of their shirt and look at the tag, then say: Just what I thought, made in Heaven.
• You know, sweetie, my lips won’t just kiss themselves.
• You are the hottest thing since sunburn.
• I lost my teddy bear. Will you sleep with me?
• Just say Hi You’ll do!
• Is that a banana in your pocket or you just pleased to see me?
• I wish 118 had your number
• Woah! you’re so hot I looked at you and got a tan!
• do you work for royal mail [no] [yes] it just i was admiring your package
• Do you ever sleep on your stomach? *No Can i?
• Im cold, can i borrow your jacket?

So whats your best chat up line?